“The PERFECT Text Message To Get Her Out On A Date With YOU..”

Got a smart question in the mailbag to answer for ya today.

QUESTION FROM A GOOD DUDE:

Hey Jason, just finished reading your book, it’s AMAZING.

I’ve read a lot of the other ‘PUA’ info out there
but this was MUCH better and clearer, thanks!

I was out last night and told this really tall girl
she was “too tall for me”. You should have
seen her reaction!

I want to know a little more about texting though,
like how to set up a second meet-up with a girl.

What would you say to her to make that happen?

Your loyal reader,

Tommy G.

JASON’S RESPONSE:

Hey Tommy, I have an IMMACULATE answer to your question, but first.. Dude..

That is AWESOME.

I love the disqualifying sarcasm you used
talking to that taller girl, but..

What I love even more about it is YOU said it, not me.

You took the principles and teachings from Make Women Want You
(like Sarcastic Disqualifying, which we talk about a lot)
and let them get into your hardwiring, your blood stream,
your whole way of thinking..

And from there, the gold just spills out of your mouth,
over and over effortlessly as it sounds like you’re starting to see.

On to your question:

How do you set up the 2nd meet-up?

Here’s what you don’t want to do:

Ask her out the same way all the other shy scrubs out there do.

Some examples:

“Hey XXX, would you like to have dinner with me this weekend?”

“Hey, I don’t know if you’re busy this weekend, if you are, that’s fine,
but if not I’d love to take you for dinner and drinks..”

YUUUUCCCCCKKKKKKK.

Can you believe most guys are still asking out women like this?

They think they’re being gentlemanly, polite, courteous and sure…they are.

But WHO THE F*CK said that’s the kind of guy women want to date and invest in.

I sure didn’t.

Neither does reality.

Just take a look at what kinds of guys all the hottest women are dating next time you’re out.

Don’t fight it, don’t get mad, don’t get upset that Hollywood and TV and music
have lied to you, just be thankful you now know the TRUTH and embrace
the clear-cut advantage you now have over all the competition.

Look: It’s great to be kind and compassionate, but do it on YOUR TERMS and when it’s deserved.

Make it a seasoning, not the STEAK.

Now: The best way to ask out a girl involves the 3 following principles:

1. Low pressure/No big deal

It should never seem like her going out with you is a big deal.

You want her to conclude that even if she says no, you have
10 other girls you could take out instead.

2. Fun/Challenging

Duh

Of course want her emotions and attraction spiked when we’re setting up plans with her.

Think about it like this:

If you were to go to the local track and run sprints, would you run faster
if your muscles were cold or if you took a couple minutes to warm up?

You’re gonna fly faster down the track WARM.

Your muscles, full of fresh oxygen and blood, will work better warm.

Same with her response to you.

If she’s in a bad or plain or bored mood when you’re talking to her
and then you ask her out, she may say no.

She’ll be way more OPEN to seeing you if in the moment
you guys are talking about it, she feels EXCITED and
ATTRACTED and CURIOUS and all those other
powerful emotions us men love to make her feel.

Fun/Challenging is the best way to do this.

3. Timing

Know the right times to ask her out.

This means knowing when she’s likely to be in a frame of mind
conducive to making plans.

When she’s busy at work at 11:30 AM, she can’t think about going for drinks tonight.

But at 4:45 when she’s itching to get out of the office
and looking to experience some excitement in the world,
a Fun/Challenging text from you might put her over the top.

My favorite times to text girls are:

Monday - Wednesday between 8 and 11 PM

Thursday - Saturday between 3 and 6 PM

Sunday nights (because most girls are alone and relaxing on Sunday nights,
great time to text with them and build more attraction or connection)

So here’s my basic structure for getting a girl
to meet me out in general, whether it’s the
first meet-up, second, etc:

1. I’ll ping back and forth with her for a couple texts..

These are just random, fun and usually challenging
type text messages.

Something to get her emotions for me charging
and heightened..

We’ll laugh about something, and then..

2. I’ll tell her to take me out.

I don’t know when I figured this out, but it’s ICE.

I’ll usually just text something like..

“So when are you going to invite me out?”

She inevitably texts back, “when are YOU..”

To which I’ll reply, “You know you want to take me
out on the town ”

To which she’ll reply something sassy or just “LOL”,
at which that point..

I’ll just suggest the time and place (men are always
the ones who make the plans, being directive for
the good of everybody else) and throw in a little
qualifier too keep it light and “low pressure” too.

Something golden like:

“Drinks. 830 tonight. Viceroy. And I know you…please leave
all the boring aspects of your personality at home “

And it’s…ON.

I cover texting and many of my more advanced principles
in my advanced dating guide, “How To Get Hotter Women”,
which you should learn more about right now.

I’m off to the gym, got a big workout I’m all excited about.

Give TRUTH

-Jason

 

 

 

 

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